1. Attempting to control everything. From the angle that the favors are placed on the guest table and determining how the photographer will compose his shots to organizing what the guests will wear and organizing every event for out-of-town guests, some couples can’t let go and allow things to happen as they unfold. While it’s perfectly fine to make your wishes known, trying to micromanage every detail will not only stress you out, but you’ll likely be too distracted to soak in the love and beauty of the day.
2. Expecting the day to be flawless. While wedding days are filled with love and excitement, nearly all of them have at least one small glitch. I’ve heard of glitches that were pretty serious (like the venue accidentally killing all the flowers) to minor and somewhat amusing (like the flower girl first tossing petals then going back up the aisle to collect them). Regardless of the magnitude of the imperfection, how you handle it will determine how much you enjoy your wedding day. Take my advice: don’t let anything get in the way of you enjoying your day.
3. Too much DIY. Most couples I’ve worked with have wanted to put some sort of signature on their wedding day. I’m all for that, but some couples take it to the extreme and put too much pressure on themselves with DIY projects, committing to too many before the wedding. Make sure you’re realistic with your skill level and with your free time before you decide to personally Bedazzle every aspect of your wedding.
4. Spend beyond your means. It’s tempting to throw caution to the wind when planning your wedding. With the gorgeous million-dollar weddings we see in magazines and television, it can be disappointing when you find out how much it costs to create the same look for your wedding. Don’t give in to that temptation. Worrying about paying off wedding debt is a sure-fire way to dampen your spirits on the wedding day.
5. Not using reputable wedding vendors. Everyone’s heard the horror stories…wedding venues closing their doors, photographers not showing up, your friend the musician not showing up because he got a paying gig. There are endless accounts of wedding days not going as planned because of an unprofessional vendor dropping the ball. Eliminate that worry by doing your due diligence when planning the wedding.
6. Talking on your phone. If ever there was a time to set aside your cell phone, your wedding day is it. Focus on getting yourself ready and relishing in the excitement of the day. Any calls, texts, or e-mails can wait.
7. Allowing negative friends or family to get in your head. You can’t please everybody. Some people think nothing of sharing their displeasure with wedding decisions you’ve made. I’ve seen moms, sisters, and “well-meaning” friends pick everything apart, from the gown choice to the flower selection and even the choice of whom to marry. Be confident in your decisions and don’t let their negativity ruin your wedding day.
8. Not making a good Plan B. Good weather is never guaranteed on your wedding day. Make sure you have a backup plan you love just as much as your good-weather plan just in case you have to move inside.
9. Surrounding yourself with too many people. Even if you are cool under pressure, having too many people surrounding you while you’re getting ready for your wedding can really raise your anxiety level. We suggest that you only have your wedding party and maybe your parents with you while you’re dressing and preparing to walk down the aisle.
10. Skipping meals. No one likes a “hangry” bride or groom. The only times I’ve had a bride or groom faint was because they hadn’t eaten. No one should spend their wedding day grumpy because they’re starving, especially if they’re paying for the food.
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